Saturday, March 15, 2008

Peruvian Humor

My new host family finds me hilarious. I’m quite used to having Peruvians laugh at me, but for once it’s not because I am making a mockery of their language ie instead of saying what I shame! I say what a penis! Highly amusing mistake, I know. But these errors had the locals saying ’what is this gringo doing here?’ and unfortunately at times, had me thinking the same thing.
But now with my new found comic audience, I am celebrating my master over the Spanish language (in the simplest way possible). I will give you a few examples now of my new found comic genius.

My host mom is very concerned as to whether or not I will like the food she has prepared. Despite my constant reassurance that not only is she a great cook, but that I am not a picky eater and very easy to please, she asks me after every meal if it pleased me. Yesterday she asked me if I liked the meal she had prepared. I told her it was terrible and I didn’t like any of it. The whole family saw that my plate was licked clean of even a grain of rice, and exploded with laughter. Have you ever heard anything so funny in all your life? The gringo said she didn’t like the food, but clearly she did because she ate everything!

Another side splitting example of my new knack for whit was when I came home from the beach today. I have been trying to soak up every last bit of sun before Lima reverts back to desolate months of endless gray. My host mom commented on how tan I looked. I agreed that I am quite tan for my naturally pasty self. But I told her to wait until July, where I will be white like a ghost. My host brothers started a minute strait of knee slapping, belly jiggling laughter, stopping only to breathlessly repeat the punch line “blanca como una fantasma!” I had no idea nursery rhyme metaphors translated into standup comedy.

I think I am just now understanding the full magnitude for Peru’s meek sense of humor. I don’t think I have ever laughed more in my life than I did my 3 months of training. I do remember feeling my first month at site that I missed laughing (and basically any sense of relaxed happiness) terribly. But I never made the simple jump to conclusion that, from my cultural perspective, Peruvians aren’t as funny as Americans. One thing us white people from the north agree is on, is that Latinos in general, don’t do sarcasm. And since Americans are arguably some of the most sarcastic people on the planet, there have been many a story-worthy misunderstanding between PCV’s and Peruvian associates.

And since these silly miscommunications are the anecdotes that make my blog worth reading and my Peace Corps service worth serving, I continue to roll with the punches. I may not understand why my family thinks the things I say are so funny (maybe they just think I have a silly accent) but I’m sure happy they get a kick out of me. That means that they like when I’m around. And feeling like I am wanted in the house is worth every embarrassing language slip up I have ever had.

3 comments:

amanda said...

hooray!! :) so two questions for you...

1) i have two friends that are coming peru-ward in may-ish time (one's a pcv from paraguay) can i give them your contact info? and what is your address these days by the way

2) can i come stop by in august?? :) hooray! so a few of my med school cronies and i are going to come down and do a swoop through peru and argentina during our summer break (we've only got 3 weeks :*( -- because we need to get away from academic pursuits for a bit... but i was hoping to correspond our flying in to lima with a short rendezvous?! love you!!

Unknown said...

I am so glad that someone in Peru is appreciating your great sense of humor. Since I am more or less deprived of it someone ought to be enjoying it! Glad you're liking your new place. Love and hugs!

Leonardo Gomez Garcia said...

Yes. Peruvians don't do sarcasm.
I was walking with my girlfriend on Davie Street (Vancouver, BC) and there was a horrible backpack advertising on one of the bus stops. Beth said "Leo, you should get one of those backpacks", and I replied back "why? - I got two already!" She wanted me to say something like "Beth, these are the ugliest backpacks I've seen in my whole life. I wouldn't accept them even as a gift, even with money stuffed within them! (laugh)"... but no. Somehow I discouraged her sarcasm.

Yes. Latin American laugh at less elaborate, more simple things. The closest to sarcasm is probably playing a lot with the words and/or methaphors; for sure "white as a ghost" can trigger peruvian humor. We got hundreds of that, but still, it's too difficult to translate them to any other language.

Take care / Leo.